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Aww janey,
Thats just it, nobody is asking you to take a back seat or a front seat to anyone. It is what it is...it is our experiance based upon what worked for us as children...it is our reality. I think most of us adoptees don't want the tit for tat that goes on we just want to be able to assimmulate where we are and were we belong.
If you noticed Amanda's next post she was tripping over herself, groveling to be accepted....I am pretty confident that it was not meant to hurt you or anyone else.
We come on these forums at different places in our search for ourselves....
Who detests you...I don't know of anyone that detest you, I don't destest anyone...who is it?
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