First of all, let me say, your letter was perfect! As a bmom, if I got that letter from my child, I'd be so happy and thrilled! I can also tell you it would likely stir up a lot of emotions in me, and I'd need some time to process everything. These emotions can blindside you, even if you think you are completely prepared for reunion.
You mention yourself the flood of emotions that "turned your brain to oatmeal" (love that description, it's so true!) for a few weeks. I suspect your bmom may be going through something similar.
I say give it some more time for your bmom to absorb and process everything. And best of luck to you. I do hope your bmom responds soon!
