[alimillerdesign]

I placed a boy for adoption 18 years ago...I am not married and my husband would like to think about adoption. We tried to get pregnant for a little while with no luck. I have tried to explain to him that it feels like I am grieving never having another child, one to keep.

I am so unsure about wanting to adopt, despite knowing the joy I brought to a family 18 years ago. Am I selfish?

Confused and sad!!! Argh!

ali