just read Dandelion on my PIllow, Butcher knife beneath - by Nancy Thomas and am now reading Parenting the hurt child. HOnestly I read 100s of books prior to the adoption, but I couldn't take it all in until now - I'm living it...easier to read and apply the knowledge.
Attachment Disorder | Nancy Thomas Parenting | Attachment.org | Reactive Attachment Disorder is a great website in my book...but there are so many places to get research. I agree that the special needs board gets a lot more traffic and if you have specific questions - they can get answered there. I do agree though - 10 years olds with AD are NOT fun...I have 2!