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Old 05-11-2009, 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted by JustPeachy
Now, IIRC, your family does not know about Cupcake, correct? So they may not understand what on earth could be so pressing that you wouldn't be there on Sat. In that case, you may need to make a very good excuse to explain your absence, but again, DON'T GUILT OUT ABOUT IT!!!

THAT'S the biggest thing Peachy. If they knew, I think I could go, totally guilt free. Because I think I would have my Mom's blessing AND my grandpas blessing. They would WANT me to see Cupcake when I could! But since they don't know, it becomes, "What in the world could possibly be more important?"

And ordinarily, the answer would be "nothing."

But a visit with Cupcake does register up there on level of importance.

Thanks for all the well wishes everyone - it's helping even just to be reminded how I shouldn't feel guilty.
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