[Birthmom12_10_2008]

I'm so sorry to hear about your grandfather, I will be thinking and praying for you and your family.

As far as what you should do, I would sign up for the time before and after your visit with cupcake on Saturday. Or like someone else suggested, sign up for the errand running, so you can do that around your visit, that way you aren't crunched for time with cupcake. If this doesn't seem plausable maybe you should talk to cupcakes Amom about maybe rescheduling, I'm sure she will understand since I'm sure she knows your family does not know about cupcake, and will be able to explain to cupcake what is going on.

Don't feel guilty though, you're only one person, and can be at one place at one time. Don't spread yourself too thin, it isn't healthy.

I hope I helped. Again I'm so sorry about your grandfather and I hope your visit with cupcake goes well!!!!!!!!!