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Originally Posted by FallenChild
I can't help but notice how hyoercritical you are - at the end ofthe day she's your mother, warts and all as it were. I can tell you that she also likely had many unexpected and intense emotions at reunion - no easier for her I am sure as it was/is for you. In any event, we can all find fault in anyone of us if we looked hard enough, and your mother is no doubt no different. You sound particularly hard on her, probably due to all the anger you have for her that surfaced during reunion. It is always easy to judge, but much harder than to wlak in another's shoes.
I wish you the best, FC
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FC...maybe you need to take your own words anduse them"Its always easy to judge then to walk in anothersshoes"
I don't think your being hypercritical at all...you are trying to work through your own confusion at the situaion you were put into. Its hard!
You have every right to feel anything and it sounds like you have been respectful of your bmother.
I understand the need for your bmom to say sorry...sorry that it had to happen...totally understanding thesituation THEY were put into made them have to give you up..but that does not takeaway from out own feelings of confusio9n..especially at reunion.
Please continue to post your feelings anddon't let anyone slap you into feeling the way THEY think you should feel