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I am by no means an expert at this as I have jsut been informed that my biological mother started a search for me. That was several months, a flood, and a completely different thread.
I would encourage you to maybe not mention "I understand your decision not to parent, and I'm not angry at you for it." That comes off almost abrasive to me. That may just be me being a softy though. I think including some information about yourself may be a great thing to break the ice as well. I understand you dont want it to be to personal, but it may make it easier to relate and respond.
Just my two bits, I wish you well and have my fingers crossed for you.
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