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I don't know if I beleive all that they told you. Or rather, I wouldn't take it as gospel!
I was told I wasn't allowed to look for my son. Why would he need me? But you know what Janey, he seems really glad that I did, and he seems really glad to have me in his life. I would love for you to have what I have now, but I know there are no guarentees.
And it's not just about physical similarities. It's about knowing your roots. My son has been so curious about where the family came from. Stuff that only you can give them.
As well as maybe understanding why you did relinquish. I know it's tough, but maybe they need to know. I'm saying maybe, to cover my ...
As far as their parents, my son's were terrified of me, but now they've faced the dragon and I hope they feel better off for doing that. I think they do.
I also feel like all of my children's lives are enriched by knowing all of their siblings. Really. Ok, the girls are awfully young, but I think it can only be good (or mostly be good) in the future.
I know it's SO EASY to get sucked into the negative. Beleive me I know, but sometimes we just have to suck it up and believe in the positive as well.
(((((Janey))))
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