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My husband had never considered adopting before and we spent nearly three years talking about it. I found him lots of info to read and i showed him alot of negative stories about the hard times , so he had a view that happy families would not be immediate in some cases. I think it is important that your husband reads info on the positive and negative and he needs time to make his choice. My husband is really excited now we have passed our home study and the hours and hours of going through web sites and reading books has really helped him. Also he saw and felt my wish to adopt and saw what a positive it will be for our lives. I would advise that you take it slowly, it is important also to read up alot of info on the country you are considering, their culture. I presume he is unsure of adopting or is it he is unsure of international adoption. I do not see a difference between local adoption or international ,it has to come down to what would be best for the child and then what would be best for you. Obviously there is the culture difference and language.
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