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I have one of those husbands. Mine changed his mind everyday, giving me hope, then taking it away. I finally had to back off, because I could tell it was stressing him too much. It's not the idea of adoption that scares him, is is about the money, how to come up with it that frightens him and me. Adoption will always be in my heart, but until he can feel better about it, I'm not pushing this on him. Our marriage is way too important. I will give it to God, and if He wants us to adopt, then He will make a way. I know it's hard to let go, especially if you like to control everything like me, but I see no other way right now. Plus I have been blessed with 4 beautiful children already. I told him when the kids are grown, I will bring this up again, he says he wants to travel, that upset me. Everyone says to move on and do something else besides having kids, and I just don't know what else could fulfill me more than being a mother.
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