[dklevy]

I would say it would be okay to go through the sites. Does she know she was adopted? Do you know if her mother has contacted her? Not that the answers would really make a difference in how you reach out to her... I don't think it really matters especially to younger people whether it's phone, letters, text , email, etc. It's all "talking" Benefit of goeing through MySpace; Facebook, etc is that it goes directly to her. And she's 18 now so I say go for it! [BTW - i sent my site addresses to my daughter's parents and also sent her bdad's page. He doesn't know cause we haven't spoken but three or four times in 11 years]