[AshleighM]

The person I use to talk to everytime I called the agency was always helpful, it wasn't until this new woman started working there that her calls would get screened. Once I found out this new woman never gave her the many messages I had left. Now the person I always spoke to isn't working there anymore.

I remember their first names and the type of business they were in but I don't remember their last names. The paperwork has since been lost because I have moved a couple of times. My father tells me to just wait until she's 18 and break my promise to them, they can't deny anything to me then and just show up at their door. (My promise to them was I would contact them when she turns 18 but not her directly because I didn't want anything to interfere with her plans for college) My promise was out of respect. My father said "They show you no respect, go tell her how you were treated, take pics of everything you send from here on out to show her, make copies of letters, etc so there can be no dispute about it."
I just think I'm more jealous of the fact they have no problem with their youngest sons bparents and the reality that they would have never been able to adopt him if I hadn't allowed them to adopt my daughter first!