[dklevy]

I don't have much advise for you but I do have a lot of sympathy. My daughter's parents held up to the deal to have contact for the first 5 years but I've heard nothing in the last 6. It took 2 weeks to get any response from the agency a few years ago and was assured that they were still getting her packages. [ My husband had left again and I was a single mom working at Kmart. I told the agency that nothing would cause me to stop sending gifts if she was getting them but I couldn't afford to but things to sit in an agency box. ] Then about a month ago I emailed the agency and was all but ignored. That's when I decided to find them and send a letter directly. Do you have any information to be able to locate them? I know it helped me to know that they got what I sent and not rely on a middle man that I now feel betrayed by. From what I've read on here, us birthmoms are more or less at the mercy of the agency and the adoptive parents. Wish I had better advise...