I was recently informed that my Bmom is looking for me. I'm in rather a unique situation as I am now working for the same orginisation that I was adopted from. Kinda funny cause it took them a few weeks to find me down the hall.
I have no objection to making contact with her and signed the permission slip the same day. My little sister had already gone thru the contact process and my parents were very supportive.
Here is where the questions start though. It has been several months (3+) since I found out and I have still not recieved a contact letter from her. About how long does it take to write one? I'm sure it's not something you just knock out in a weekend. I'm just curious and hoping some other bmom's may be able to give me some feedback. I've tried very hard to try to place myself in her shoes over the past few months and still have been unable to wrap my head around the emotions she must be going thru. I've had a great life and I would like to share my story with her to let her know that she made a good decision. I've considered writing a letter to her to kinda break the ice but I have NO idea what I'd say. Not really sure how to approach the topic.
Any advice or insight would be amazing!
Thank you all so much.