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Just chiming in to agree with everyone else--but the idea that the prospective adoptive parents want you not to hold your child is horrifying. I was clear from the start that the birthfather and I would parent our son for the first day--we kept him with us, I breastfed him--and then we handed him over to his forever parents. But if they had tried to talk me out of that time, especially if they had then announced that they were immediately going to take the baby to another state, I would have found another match.
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