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s00ner, it does make it more "tricky" that she was one of your closest friends. But you'd think that if she WERE your friend, she'd want what is fair and best for you as well as for herself.
I have to say that to hear that she's accusing you of making trouble is really unsettling to me.
I would think REALLY long and hard about whether or not you feel this is the right family to parent your child. I know you would feel bad to have a change of heart, but if these people are putting this much pressure on you NOW, it honestly doesn't bode well for the future. Truly. If this is how things are now, imagine when she HAS the baby.
I ask that you please PLEASE think about this before it is too late.
If she blows up at you when she finds out what your plans are...that is a REALLY telling sign.
No one here has anything to gain or lose by offering this advice to you. We're not the agency, not the paparents, not family.
Just women and men who have been either in your position, or that of an amom....And this just feels SO wrong.
Like Janey, I'm not one who usually says that a couple is the "wrong" couple...but if I were in your position, I would run and not look back.
Good luck to you. Stay strong. Do what is best for you and your baby.
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