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Old 04-27-2009, 04:12 PM
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Also, if you wish to place with an in-state family, you can change your mind about matching with this couple, given their announcement that they are moving to CA immediately, which sounds like it was a surprise to you, rather than something that was disclosed before you chose them. Perhaps they just made this decision or had a change of plans, but since after placing, you will have no say in where they live or why, such immediate plans to move so far away is something that you should carefully consider in whether you wish to continue dealing with this particular couple. It's certainly your right to back out of this match and choose a family who plans to live in their current city/state for the longterm, if that is important to you. Of course, this is all only pertinent if you decide to continue with your plans to place your daughter, after welcoming her into the world and spending some time with her.
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