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I attempted adoptive breast feeding and it was definitely challenging. I didn't actually pump as often as I was supposed to, so my milk supply was very limited. However, I did give my daughter a bit of breast milk from a bottle each day. We ended up adopting an older baby (18 months, though the size of a 12 month old due to a genetic disorder.) I'm not sure if the breast milk made any difference, but on the whole it was a good experience for me.
I don't think you need to feel guilty at all if you're not up for it. It's very, very challenging. There are many things involved in being a good parent and many fantastic parents bottle feed their children. Sure breast milk is a precious gift, but kids can be happy and healthy without it. If the process is too stressful for you, it may hinder your ability to parent well in other ways. No matter what you choose, you'll be a great mom!
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