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Hey there. I too had a closed adoption and I'm a little older than you. I'm 31 but I remember what it felt like to not have any information on my bio family. When I was your age I was really just beginning to deal with the abandonment issues that I had and I was just beginning to identify the fact that I really wanted to find my bio mother because of medical reasons.
One thing that I'ld like to suggest to you when you're reading posts here is to look for the similarities not the differences. It's so easy to think that we are unique and that no one can possibly understand what we're going through, but if we can find just one similarity sometimes it makes us feel less alone.
Like I said before, I do know where you're coming from because I've been there. Our stories may be a little different but I bet a lot of our feelings about the stories are the same. If you want to talk feel free to send me a messege
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