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Originally Posted by Emster
however, I have to ask, is your son someone who is used to having you all to himself and is a little worried about displacement, or is he someone who has true ATTACHMENT ISSUES? Seems like the approach will be different depending on this. If he has true attachment issues, you may be dealing with true sabotage of your relationship at all costs. Hoepfully your counselor has experience with this and can best guide you through. The last thing you want to do is ahve to decide which person you will choose in your life. Slow and steady, and perhaps not using the word "mommy" willd efinitely be a start!
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Yes, he is very used to having me all to himself. In fact, it'll be officially 7 years this Saturday the 25th. He don't like my mom, who is older and uses a walker or wheelchair to get along. I have been helping her since my dad died in 98 and he feels that she is takiing me away from him. Has always felt that way. The thing that strikes me odd is that Noah has always asked for a mommy. I can't count the times that I have reassured him that I won't abandon him. I told him that I fought long and hard to get him, I wouldn't give him up if my life depended on it. It don't do anything for him. The councelling sessions don't start till June but I'm not sure I can make it till then. It's killing me !!!