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however, I have to ask, is your son someone who is used to having you all to himself and is a little worried about displacement, or is he someone who has true ATTACHMENT ISSUES? Seems like the approach will be different depending on this. If he has true attachment issues, you may be dealing with true sabotage of your relationship at all costs. Hoepfully your counselor has experience with this and can best guide you through. The last thing you want to do is ahve to decide which person you will choose in your life. Slow and steady, and perhaps not using the word "mommy" willd efinitely be a start!
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Em
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