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I was in your place - single, with 2 daughters adopted as toddlers. I always got "We wish we had a Daddy." When the oldest was 12, I started just dating. If I dated anyone a second time it was "We don't like him. We don't want him for a father." I gave up and stopped dating.
They are now grown and I am still single and beyond dating age. Now they say "We worry about you being alone. We wish you had found somebody." They have NO MEMORY of the fits they pitched.
If this woman is good for you, DO IT. Your "little man" will be a "grown man" in eight years and you will have the rest of your life -- alone, or with a lifetime companion?
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 Mother to Sissy - my Mayan Princess (over 25) - International Adoption
Mother to Sassy - my Spanish Princess (over 25) - International Adoption
 Mother to Spiderman (age 7) - domestic open adoption of relative
Grandmother to Pink Princess (age 3) - She rules my heart! 
Retired from my job, but haven't quit working!
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