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Originally Posted by rkirby40
I'll be praying for you in your decision making. You have already proven the love you have for your child by choosing to carry him full term. You didn't terminate his life, you have put him first and I'm proud of you for that. IF you feel your boyfriend will be your life mate then just think about what wedding vows suggest. Doesn't it go something like--- To love HONOR and cherish in sickness and health to death do us part?
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RKIRBY40, This is a seemingly intelligent, brilliant young lady, her dilemma is of simplicity, a man she FEELS is her soul mate, is basically giving her an ultimatum(sp)?...give her child away/relinquish/ hell even abort in the beginning. This is NOT the definition of ANY man in my opinion. VOWS....When we meet the person of our dreams, and do so to choose them as a life mate, we do this in excepting them as they are, with hopes and dreams of that person enhancing our lives, completing us in a way, that they will indeed stand side by side, willing us each day to be a better person. EXCEPTING them as they are! In her case they were split, she loves her baby, and he is telling her good-bye if she does not relinquish an important part of her own-self NO...he is not a MAN whom loves her...he only chooses to love her on his own terms, and insecurities. The REAL man that loves her , will love and except her and her child, as his own, vowing to cherish and support her in her goals and dreams, whether that child is his own or not...will have no bearings. rkirby, I have reread your post, and I think we are of the same opinion, so no disrespect is meant. EZ2luv, is a great person to offer her opinion, as she has lived her journey, with the label given her'adoptee", I hope the OP hears her words.....Blessings... C.J.
