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I do not have the experience yet as we are just doing our homestudy, but I agree with the past posters who said you made a committment and should stand by it. We were told this right in our classes. When we get matched with a child/ren we do not even get to see their pictures. We have to make a committment to them based on files sight unseen! I really think you are probably more attached than you think and if you are having doubts, that is a good thing. If you felt you were never ever going to love the child, or the child was hurting your other child in some way, maybe and just maybe it would be a consideration. It sounds to me like this kid really needs you and you need him.
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Stacy 
Started adoption process in July 2008.
Sent in Application end of February 2009.
Begin Homestudy - first meeting with SW on 4/21/09
Special Needs Adoption classes - March 2009 and April 2009.
Hoping to adopt a sibling group through the Special Needs program.
Bio mom to 8 yr old son.
Step mom to 21 yr old step-son.
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