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Old 04-16-2009, 10:03 AM
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Hello- My name is Dana and I want you to know there is no greater gift than a child. But there is no greater gift than an adopted child. Yes it is a hard thing to decide. I personally have been in both positions. I gave up 3 children for adoption. I was not regretful until they were grown. But being reunited with them and the joy of them and their children my grandchildren I would not traded them for anything. I assure you. You will meet another supportive man whom will love you and your child, and except your child as his own.Let this man go that wants to make you choose. He is not a real man if he thinks he can control you to the point of chosing him over your baby. He need to get lost. I know you are a grown woman but, you , to me are still someones child and abhear to me when I say this to you. Child, don't make the wrong choice and live to regret it and give up your beautiful baby for a loser of a man. He is not worth it. You will only learn to rescent him and be very regretful you gave up what God gave you. The gift of Life. You can continue your education and be a mother to your child at the same time. I will say, I am adopted and I had a mother that was selfless at the age of 15. She wanted to have an bright future and prayed I would have a mother and father by Christmas. And I was adopted a week before Christmas. I had 2 wonderful parents. What ever you chose do it for the good of your child. Do not listen to the man that is ignorant to knowing thew jopy of a child. I support your choice 100% no matter what you decide. If you would like to contact me. I would love you be there for you.

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