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Originally Posted by seeking_to_adopt
my personal opinion is - if it is an unwanted child, it would be better for someone else to look after it - to give it up for adoption. Otherwise, you will hate your own baby and it will have a messed up adulthood. Especially when you start seeing your ex's genes in the child.
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Anil
Olathe, KS
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I'm curious, have you ever experienced this? I do not think that this young woman is seeing her situation in such black and white terms. If she does not choose to place him, it will because she loves him and wants to do what is best for him. It is therefore NOT a forgone conclusion that she will hate him and he will have "a messed up adulthood."