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Hi Janey,
Your words are so incredibly vivid and so pertinent. The part of learning to listen is a major goal every human being should strive to incorporate into their conscious soul. To stop and hear and mull on what is said, instead of thinking of what to say back instead of listening to the message. People choose to be right and feel superior over choosing to expand and empathize, if everyone choose to be conscious and open to what others feel and say, we collectively could find a solution to make this world the best world in the universe.
I find myself frustrated over and over again in this 'strange triangle' and decide to 'give up' and 'go away' but that isn't the right way...to not speak up and tell my feelings so others may hear just a bit about what some may feel on the other side...and those that are able and willing to hear, hear and take what is valid to their situation and store away what isn't, just in case it is needed in their lives in the future.
We all need to consciously choose to validate and listen to the other sides we do not understand, so that together we can grow and make life better for all.
You are a jewel, thanks for being my friend.
Kind regards,
Dickons
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