Hey Aspenhall,
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As bad as birthparents have felt when they change their mind and it's too late, there is also much grief on the aparents end, having bonded with the baby and being unable to part with the child and knowing that it is causing the birthparents unending, extreme grief.
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Well said!
It would be so.....well...maybe "wonderful" isn't the right word, but so much more peaceful if everyone on all sides didn't have to live under the shadow of guilt adoption seems to bring with it.
Every once in a while I've seen animosity displayed in here towards aparents simply because they are aparents. I've never been comfortable with that.
My children's parents were not in any way responsible for the road I had to travel and to the places that road would lead. I have never seen them as people who profited from my loss.
Hugs to ya!
