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I have to agree with JustPeachy and Cetalley, There are some sites that are millitant anti adoption and extreme. They scared the bejesus out of me accusing me of being an adoptee in denial or condition by my aparents. While keeping a mother and child and families in tact is always best, if you feel in your heart that you cannot parent, I can assure you there are some well balanced adoptees that grew up with tons of love in good homes. There is always open adoption too. Just make certain you know what you want and are able to taloir make your adoption plan. Another option that I feel is the best is to take baby home and take some time before jumping into a plan. A decision of this magnitude should not be rushed and a few days after birth IMHO is too soon to be signing papers especially if you are not 110% certain, even then it is OK to change your mind and parent.
EZ
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Last edited by EZ2Luv : 04-13-2009 at 06:18 PM.
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