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Having a visit with his birth mom (especially if you can take pictures, etc.) really could be a great gift to your son. My DD loves looking at her birth book and it is really wonderful to see how much her birth parents love her and how happy they were to be with her. It makes it so much easier for me to discuss adoption with her. We also have annual visits (we also visited when DD was 6 weeks old) and now this is putting a bee in my bonnet to make another album (I am so bad about printing pix off my computer!). I can tell you that for me visits are very affirming (even though it's not about that), so I think you can put aside some of your fears! I wish you lots of luck figuring it out, and enjoy your vacation.
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