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You have to be prepared to make a choice in this situation. Could your father come around? Possibly. But what if he doesn't?
Your child deserves to be loved by you and everyone around you unconditionally. Honestly, I know you don't want people bashing your dad but the way he feels is wrong. You kind of seem to be making excuses for him. I know you love him. He's your dad but will that cloud your judgment? Kids are smart. Your child will understand the unspoken reality of how your dad feels. That is not fair to the child.
My opinion is, if you are not ready to cut your dad out of your life if he does not come around, then don't do it. Wait for a CC child.
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