We've had our DS since he was 2months old and he's now 4 1/2. We adopted him through fostercare and we've had an open relationship with his paternal bgrandma the entire time.
She recently passed away and we attended her funeral where we found out that she and the birthfathers new wife had been lying to us about the birthfather. They kept saying how well he was doing and how he had changed his life around and that he was working and that this new girl in his life that he recently married was so good for him.
Come to find out right before the funeral he's been up to his old criminal history (long history)and has been in jail again for the last 10 months. The new wife finally told the truth when we showed up for the funeral and he was about to pull up with in a police car with a police escort in hand cuffs.
So anyways, I got over that and now I get a phone call from a birth relative saying that She has been really worried about something and has been praying wether or not she should tell us and how...
Appearantly during and after the funeral she overheard some family members talking about how they had heard that the birthfather and his wife where planning on getting his son back after he got out of jail (which should be in about 4 months).
She said that she knew he couldn't legally go and get him back but that she knew him and what he was capable of and wanted us to know what she had heard.
So now we are left with more to think and worry about
I'm hoping they are just rumors that his family members made up. But we'll never know and we'll just have to keep our eyes open.