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I understand what everyone is saying. And, it is good to hear that most feel we can still be good parents without feeling completely bonded. I just felt like this child deserves to be loved unconditionally, like all children, and I hope that I can do that for him one day. And, as an aside, he doesn't know about adoption plans. He hasn't been told that. So, for everyone that feels I'm breaking a committment I made to him, that is not the case in this situation.
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B - Bio Daughter, Born 12/99
W - Preadoptive Son, Born 5/01, Placed with us 8/08
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