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Honestly, though it is unfortunate that XX acted this way, this is very common in potential matches. Sometimes things just don't work out. I am in no way defending XX behavior, but there are scammers and liars on both sides. Sadly, this couple must be jaded from being scammed themselves.
Ultimately the decision to place your baby and who to place them with is entirely up to you. I am glad you found that this couple was not the right one to parent your baby.
You are wise to back out of something that does not feel right with you. Let's face you are talking to strangers. Adoption is such a life altering life changing commitment. Pehaps you should have your baby take him home and then decide if adoption is for you. You can always match and find parents after baby is born. As a matter of fact I think that is the safest route for all involved.
Good Luck,
EZ
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