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Raven,
The tantrum thing, that is so right on. I told my son he was acting like a spoiled brat and of course I allowed him to act in this manner. The relationship is growing, my mom and entire family is holding their collective breath but I know that we are in each others' lives to stay and I can really let my guard down and be the mom he wants me to be and the mom i want to be to him. We need to foster this relationship to withstand all the outside pressures we will still face from his afamily and his birth family. I have realized he would not have put so much effort into making me feel miserable if he didn't love me and yes once my new job which i love by the way settles down, i will look into alanon.
Thanks
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