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Hi! I am also adopted, and I DID find my mother, but only when the timing was right. I had studied much about how to go about it without giving anyone a heart attack...Anyway, long story, short...My adoption was closed, I had acess only to 'non-identifying information', which I got, and which led me straight to her. You are much younger, so they may not make the same mistakes, but I will post my story so you can read it and see what I did.
My mother was thrilled to reconnect, had thought about me much, much, much, and we had a very good relationship until she passed away. I hope the same holds true for you.
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