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From the sound of your post this appears to be an international adoption? Please understand that this baby is grieving. Also, at 9 months old she could be teething or just going through so of the normal non adoption related issues of a baby.
Have you talked to anyone at your agency? Perhaps counseling? I wish I had answers for you. Your post has me crying my eyes out for both you and this innocent little baby.
As frustrating as it is, she is still only a baby and is not doing these things on purpose. What about attatchment parenting, wearing her in a sling to give her reassurance? I am just throwing ideas out there.
I have heard others suggest "faking it until you make it" I am certain that baby is also picking up on your frustration.
I pray that you are able to get the support, direction and help you need. You might want to post this in the international forum if this is an iternational adoption.
EZ
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