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Sweetyourock,
You have such a supportive family and that is a blessing. If you are really bonding with your baby and your family is willing to help you, do you really want to place your baby up for adoption? Other posters have said that going through school as a single parent will be hard, but possible and I agree. If adoption is what YOU AND ONLY YOU want then get counseling and make an adoption plan. If your decision is being based, even a teeny tiny bit, about your boyfriend then ask yourself "What kind of man would make such a demand of you (to place your baby)and do you really NEED that kind of man in your life?"
This baby is part of you...can he not love this part of you? Can this man only love a CHILD if it is his biologically? Think about all the wonderful adoptive Dads out there. They've had to go through a lot of embarassing things just to be able to adopt a baby. If your boyfriend doesn't treasure the precious life you are carrying than how can he treasure you?
This post may sound harsh, but I would hate to know that I gave up something that I loved and was part of me because I wanted to keep a boyfriend that has gone away before. Would you give up your family..never to see or talk to them if your boyfriend demanded you to? If the answer is no..then why are you letting him do it with your baby?
Hugs to you
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