My husband was against adoption at first. We had 3 bio kiddos in 16 months. He was done! So much done he had a vasectomy at 21
When our first was born in 98 I thought about adoption. After the Big V (2000) I REALLY wanted to adopt. But it wasn't until Nov of 05 he said yes we could research. And it wasn't until June of 07 that he offically JUMPED ON BOARD!!!!!!
The only thing to keep in mind.......if we had adopted when I alone wanted to......we would have more then likely adopted a different child. And when I look at my Indian Princess I have NO DOUBT in mymind that this my child. This child was meant to be ours!!