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For the record, I agree with Brandy; a bmother, however involved in her child's life, is not a "Mommy". That title should and must be reserved, IMO, for the woman who is actually parenting the child.
I don't see how a birthmother could ever, even if she wanted to, usurp that position from an adoptive mother, so if any aparents are in fact worried about that, they shouldn't be.
I also agree with DLouis; it is equally terrible when birthparents agree to open adoption, then break their agreement. I think legal accountability should work both ways.
~ Sharon
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