Dear Sweetyourock,
Hi. I'm Janey. Welcome to the forum!!
I'd like to echo what Peachy said. Also, I can tell you from personal experience that relinquishing a child leaves a hole in the heart and the soul and that that remains there always.
I would ask you this (asked with respect and compassion).
What happens when you've relinquished your child and then time passes and the pain of relinquishment grows and you realize that you resent your boyfriend greatly for what he demanded you do? What also happens when that resentment grows?
What happens, as someone else mentioned, if he breaks up with you again and then your left not only with the loss of him but the extreme loss of your child due to him? I can only imagine that that would be a bitter pill to swallow.
(((( Sweetyourock ))) If you make this decision - which you have every right to do - then IMO, it must be a decision made for the good of only two people. You and your baby.
I will be thinking of you. Keep us posted and keep writing, okay?
Much hugs to you today!
