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I think it is wonderful that you are wanting and willing to help this woman, but this plan is simply not fair to the baby. As others have said, that baby deserves stability.
What happens if this woman decides that she only wants to parent when it is convient for her or what if she really does not want to parent at all? What happens if she agrees to let you have baby, you get attatched and baby attaches to you then one day she waltzes in and decides she wants baby back? That is not fair to this baby or you. The very best thing you can do is direct this woman to unbiased counseling so they can let her know her options.
Right now any counsel you are giviing her IS biased. She deserves to know her options before she makes any kind of decision. If she doesn't want to parent, you cannot force her on the premsie that you will help her. It just doesn't work that way, I am sure you know that.
EZ
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