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Bothsides I know exactly what your going thru.Reading your post I thought it was me.At 19 my Girlfriend told me she was preg and said goodbye I'm going to CA. All along Ive thought my son was in CA with her. Now 28 yrs later she finds me and tells me she put him up for Adoption in my home state. I was adopted also and this killed me,then to find out my son grew up 2 towns from me and was friends with a younger cousin of mine.For 2 yrs now we have been working on a relationship but it is HARD as hell.I had 28 yrs stolen from me by my Ex not giving me the option to take my son.Now it is really hard seeing him and knowing I missed so much. Really now I know why adoption Records were sealed, I beleive they should stay that way.I love my Son but the turmoil that has occured from finding eachother can really hurt. I would just wait if I was you eventually she is going to wonder and want to know or not know, thats a chance you take.I have always wonder'd about my Birth Parents and tried to get info, but after what Ive been thru with this reunion I gave up.I know that i want so much more with my son and probably will never get it ( I hope I Do) so everyday hurts alot.One good thing is that I finally have something on this earth that is part of me
and not feeling alone W/O Birth parents or Brothers /Sisters. Good luck to you I hope it works out.
Harley
PS: sorry for rambling so much
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