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Originally Posted by Tshintl
On February 25, 2009 I found out who my birth mother was. On February 28, 2009, just 3 days later, she passed away. Words can not explain my emotions. So close, but our reunion was never to be.
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I feel for you, i lost my Bmother on the 29th Jan, i found her in 1985 but she always refused to see me. My sisters decided that it might upset some family members
(who did not know of me) so they did not tell me until after the funeral, thats the end of our relationship. To add insult to injury the website hosting the memorial guest book refused to accept my entry because i was not named in the obituary. I think the anger is helping with the grief, anyway i won in the end as you can see. it is now publicly stated that i am her son and i have said my few words. I lost my AMOM when i was 8 but i dont really remember much, ADAD went when i was 24, that was really hard but i got through it, this however is much worse and i feel so alone despite having a wife and two children.
Hang in there ,it does not get better but you will get better at dealing with it day to day, it will catch you out when you least expect it sometimes, you will need to find an excuse for the tear in your eye when a memory is triggered by something.
Here is my small victory
http://www.legacy.com/GB2/default.as...D=442505313533