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Old 03-06-2009, 06:37 PM
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I didn't experience PPD but I have missed SE every day since her I left her at the hospital. I don't regret her adoption but it's a loss unlike the abortion you are or were planning would be. I am pro-chioce but personally could not choose that option. If you have ruled that out, then take the time to figure out what you and your boyfriend truly want to do. If you are not in agreement then besides the impact of either abortion, adoption or parenting itself, you'll have issues between the two of you as well.

I didn't tell anyone what I was concidering until I had made up my mind. I didn't have a place like this to help with any of the options. Six weeks is so early on. Take the time you need to figure out what is best. Read postings from all sides and see if that helps. If you chose adoption, it'll affect you just as much as choosing to parent. Some ways good, some bad.
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