[millie58]

Having my son from a RTC after he was sexually abused by birth father and having fostered his younger brother for 2 1/2 years before that, here's my experience: if they weren't separated, it wasn't considered "bad". It could have been an "age" curiosity thing. Being in a group home: could be because there wasn't a foster home willing to take him. foster parents usually want younger kids. Him having been in a group home: he'll be jealous of your son. You will have to keep constant watch over him. there will also be other behaviors that come from not being with a family. Good luck in whatever you do.