[Crissy011]

I'm in a pre-adoptive situation and I'm struggling with how I feel. I am trying to love unconditionally and to have that strong bond/attachment that I know I should have with my son, but it isn't there yet. I'm wondering if anyone else had these feelings...this confusion about being the "right" family and making the "right" decision for everyone. I really am giving it my all (I think), but that love isn't there and I feel SO guilty all the time about it.