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Oh, come on Tentmaker. So many people are trying to tell you something so much more than the "real" thing you are hung up on. I have an idea. Re-read the posts taking the "real" thing out. What so many others have said is that "ya it isn't easy hearing out kids say hurtful things be they adopted or biological." BUT there will be times when they will all say things that hurt.
If you can't get past some of the issues that you have - how will you be able to open your heart completely to a child? Will you be able to fall in love completely with your baby without fear in the background. And later on in the tough teenage years when they WILL say things you don't want to hear, will you be able to see beyond their words? Will you be able to get past your feelings and think of your childs?
It doesn't sound like you are ready at this point.
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