[dklevy]

I kept a small journal when I was pregnant. I don't think it would have bothered me if they had asked. But I didn't view her as my baby from the time I chose adoption. She was "our" baby from that point forward. I might suggest feeling her out. See how she's thinking about the pregnancy and the baby. I have a long-standing philosophy that if you continually think about doing something even after you tell yourself you shouldn't - well that just means you should do it. If that's how you find yourself feeling then maybe you should bring it up with her. Just do it gently.